Given the usual generators $J_i$ for $i=1,2,3$ of the group $SO(3)$, a rotation matrix $R \in SO(3)$ can be written as
$$
R = e^{ i \, t_k J_k} \qquad (R^{-1} = e^{ -i \, t_k J_k})
$$
where the repeated index $k$ is summed.
Therefore (the limit for small $a$ is understood and $T = t_k J_k $ is an Hermitean matrix),
$$
\frac{d}{d t_1}R = a^{-1} \big( e^{ i(t_k+a\delta_{k1}) J_k}-e^{ i t_k J_k} \big) = a^{-1} \big( e^{i T + i a J_1 }-e^{ i T} \big)
\\
= a^{-1} \big( e^{ i T + a i J_1 }e^{ -i T} - 1 \big)R
$$
Now, could try to use the BCH formula but would still give an infinite series: the "naive" approach would give
$$
e^{ iT + ia J_1 }e^{ -i T} \approx e^{i T + ia J_1 - iT +[T + a J_1,T]/2} = e^{ a (i J_1 + [ J_1,T]/2)} \approx 1+ a (i J_1 + [ J_1,T]/2)
$$
$$
\frac{d}{d t_1}R = i J_1 + [J_1,T]/2 = i J_1 + n_k [J_1,J_k ]/2
$$
You can easily calculate the last commutator with the usual commutation relation $[J_a,J_b]= i \epsilon_{abc}J_c$. Similarly for $t_2$ or $t_3$.
However, this is NOT correct: many other commutators of order $a$ are missing in the truncated BCH formula used above!
Therefore, you may try the derivative of the exponential map,
$$
\frac{d}{d t_1}R = \frac{d}{d t_1} e^{i T} = \int_0^1 e^{i (1-s) T}
i\frac{d}{d t_1}T e^{i s T} ds= i \int_0^1 e^{i (1-s) T}
J_1 e^{i s T} ds =
\\
=i\int_0^1 J_1 ds+ i \int_0^1 e^{i (1-s) T}
[J_1, e^{i s T}] ds \,
=i J_1 + i \int_0^1 e^{i (1-s) T}
[J_1, e^{i s T}] ds \, .
$$
Again, we have found the correct first term $iJ_1$, but the second integral term is a series (the full series that you would find by using the full BCH formula).