For a continuously differentiable vector field $F$ the divergence theorem can be used to give $$(\nabla\cdot F)(a) = \lim_{r\to 0} \frac{3}{4\pi r^3}\int_{|x-a|=r} F \cdot n dA$$ This should mean that for $c<3 $ $$\lim_{r\to 0} \frac{3}{4\pi r^c}\int_{|x-a|=r} F \cdot n dA=0$$ In particular for $c=2$ that $$\lim_{r\to 0} \frac{3}{4\pi r^2}\int_{|x-a|=r} F \cdot n dA=0$$
Although I understand mathematically why divergence is associated with the first equation given above, I don't have a good grasp about why intuitively it is correct to divide by $r^3$ instead of $r^2$. I would have thought that since the flux is a surface integral we should divide by $r^2$ to account for the changing size of the surface area. Can anyone give an intuitive explanation for what I am missing?