Consider any differentiable transformation $q_{j}\rightarrow q_{j}^{\lambda} = f_{j}^{\lambda}(q_{1}, \ldots, q_{N})$ parametrized by $\lambda$ (I'll place it as a superscript). For any such transformation, we can write $$ L(q_{j}^{\lambda}, \dot{q}_{j}^{\lambda}, t) - L(q_{j}^{0}, \dot{q}_{j}^{0}, t) = G^{\lambda} $$ where $G^{\lambda} = G^{\lambda}(q_{j}, \dot{q}_{j}, t)$.
Now trivially, for any given solution $q_{j} = q_{j}(t)$ to the Euler-Lagrange equation, we can write $G^{\lambda} = \frac{dF^{\lambda}}{dt}$. Does this mean that any transformation changes the Lagrangian up to a total time-derivative? If so, doesn't that mean any transformation is a quasi-symmetry?
The Noether charge for this should be $$ Q = p_{j}\frac{dq_{j}^{\lambda}}{d\lambda}\Big|_{\lambda=0} - \frac{dF^{\lambda}}{d\lambda}\Big|_{\lambda=0}, $$ and it seems like we my write $$ Q = p_{j}\frac{dq_{j}^{\lambda}}{d\lambda}\Big|_{\lambda=0} - \frac{d}{d\lambda}\Big|_{\lambda=0}\int_{0}^{t} G^{\lambda} \, dt. $$
I've tried out some examples, and it seemed to have given me consistent results for physically meaningless transformations. I was able to generate various expressions that indeed resulted in invariant quantities when plugging in solutions to the Euler-Lagrange equations, but it's not clear what significance any of them had, and all of this seems to trivialize Noether's theorem in my mind. Can anyone clarify if I'm doing something wrong?
I think what would be most helpful is, what would be an explicit example of a differentiable transformation that's not a quasi-symmetry? I would like to see exactly why such an example would fail.