I'm in the process of self-studying (classical) analytical mechanics, and in various textbooks I have come across the assumption that if two particles are constrained to remain at a fixed distance from each other (for instance, by a massless rod), then the constraint force that each one exerts on the other is parallel to the vector joining them. I am not comfortable with just assuming this, and thus I am trying to prove it from first principles (Newton's laws), as follows:
Suppose we have to particles A and B, with masses $m_1$ and $m_2$, respectively, moving in a plane, and constrained to remain at a fixed distance $d$ from each other. We consider two external forces, $\boldsymbol{F_A}$ and $\boldsymbol{F_B}$ acting on the particles, which account for the total external force exerted on each of them, respectively. Since $\boldsymbol{F_A}$ and $\boldsymbol{F_B}$ are arbitrary, there must also be a pair of internal forces acting on the particles, so that the imposed constraint is satisfied. Now, given that the internal force acting on particle A is exerted by particle B and vice-versa, from Newton's third law we know that these two forces must be of equal magnitude and opposite direction, so we label them $\boldsymbol{F}$ and $\boldsymbol{-F}$. However, we do not want to assume that they act along the line of the relative position vector $\boldsymbol{r_{B/A}} = \boldsymbol{r_B} - \boldsymbol{r_A}$, and thus we leave both their magnitude and direction as unknowns.
The equations of motion of the system thus become:
$$ m_1 \boldsymbol{\ddot{r}_A} = \boldsymbol{F_A} + \boldsymbol{F}$$ $$ m_2 \boldsymbol{\ddot{r}_B} = \boldsymbol{F_B} - \boldsymbol{F}$$
By considering the constraint, through a cinematic analysis we can also conclude that:
$$ |\boldsymbol{r_{B/A}}| = d \Rightarrow \frac d {dt}|\boldsymbol{r_{B/A}}| = 0 \Rightarrow \boldsymbol{\dot{r}_{B/A}} \cdot \boldsymbol{r_{B/A}} = 0 $$
I have been trying to prove, from these three equations alone, that $\boldsymbol{F}$ must in fact be parallel to $\boldsymbol{r_{B/A}}$ (for instance, by showing that $\boldsymbol{F} \cdot \boldsymbol{\dot{r}_{B/A}} = 0 $ or some equivalent statement), but I am struggling to arrive at this result. Am I missing something here? Is there maybe another hidden assumption or equation that I am failing to take into account? Or else, if it cannot be proven in this way, what is the justification for assuming that this is is true?