As a newbie I was reading the book "The Theory of Everything", and came about these two paragraphs which I just don't understand:
I had already discussed with Roger Penrose the idea of defining a black hole as the set of events from which it was not possible to escape to a large distance. This is now the generally accepted definition. It means that the boundary of the black hole, the event horizon, is formed by rays of light that just fail to get away from the black hole. Instead, they stay forever, hovering on the edge of the black hole. It is like running away from the police and managing to keep one step ahead but not being able to get clear away.
Suddenly I realized that the paths of these light rays could not be approaching one another, because if they were, they must eventually run into each other. It would be like someone else running away from the police in the opposite direction. You would both be caught or, in this case, fall into a black hole. But if these light rays were swallowed up by the black hole, then they could not have been on the boundary of the black hole. So light rays in the event horizon had to be moving parallel to, or away from, each other.
The first paragraph is for context, the second para is what I don't understand at all.
The paths of these light rays could not be approaching one another.
Why?
It would be great if you explain the analogy given after this in a more detailed yet layman manner.