Neutrino was discovered from the seemingly violation of conservation laws.
Supposedly, it was suprising to scientists, when they found electrons were emmited at various energies during beta decay Hence, the continuous range of energies was accounted for using this new particle, the neutrino.
However, it is unclear to me why other forms of decay must be discrete. Why was it suprising that electrons were emitted at various energies? Consider alpha decay. A parent nucleus decays into a daughter nucleus and an alpha particle. Couldn't the decay energy be variably shared across the daughter nucleus and the alpha particle, such that the alpha particle is emitted with a range of energies as well?
Watching a video, I found the following explanation.
When a nuclear reaction takes place, some amount of energy is released. This energy released can be predicted using the mass defect. From this energy, we can then predict the kinetic energy of the emitted particle, as the daughter nuclei is so massive compared to the emitted particle. Hence, the vast amount of decay energy is carried off by the emitted particle. So we can theoretically predict the kinetic energy of this emitted particle.
What is not clear to me, is why the emitted particle carries nearly all the kinetic energy. Kinetic energy is $\frac{1}{2}mv^2$. As the daughter nuclei has much more mass, wouldn't the kinetic energy be roughly the same between the daughter nuclei and the emitted particle?
It is unclear to me why the decay energy cannot be shared in variable proportions with the daughter nuclei and the alpha particles, therefore giving a continuous range of energies for the alpha particle. What is wrong with my intuition?