In the linearization of GR, when $g_{\mu\nu} = \eta_{\mu\nu} + h_{\mu\nu}$, and $|h| \ll 1$, it is said (for example here) that 'to linear order the “$\Gamma\Gamma$” terms go away' in the formula for the Ricci tensor.
It is like to say that, if a function is small, the square of its first derivative (in the case, the $\Gamma$'s are derivatives of $h$) can be neglected compared to its second derivative (the remaining terms of the Ricci tensor).
I can imagine examples where this is reasonable (see below), but not a general proof. The references that I read don't even bother to discuss the question, so maybe it is obvious and I am missing something.
Let's take an example for a function of one variable: $h(x) = A \sin(kx)$ If $A<<1$ then $h<<1$. But suppose that $k = \frac{1}{A}$. Then the derivative: $\dot h(x) = \cos(kx)$ is not so small.
However it is true that $\ddot h(x) = -k \sin(kx)$ is much bigger than $\dot h$. And according to that example, the square of the first derivative can be neglected compared to the second derivative.
But this is not a proof, only an example.