I'm trying to understand GR and geodesics in relation to a specific example.
Two objects, suspended at different heights so that one is over the other while both of their velocities relative to the ground are zero. Both are released so that they enter free fall with a timing of release so both objects strike the ground at the same time.
In proxies for GR, such as two paths on a sphere which are pointing to the same location (walking to the north pole example), the rate which objects approach one another is dictated by the curvature. But in the example above, while both objects are approaching the same location, they approach it at different velocities.
For past questions I have asked about GR and geodesics I typically get an answer like "you are neglecting time and only looking at the curvature of space instead of the curvature of spacetime". I do understand that the curvature of time matters, and for past examples, like throwing objects into the air, I have been able to understand how time becomes relevant for them. (I think anyway, maybe this example shows I don't understand it)
I'm asking for help understanding how the curvature of time is changing the approach speed, not just that the answer lies in the curvature of time.