As you mention, when a vehicle is accelerating you can physically sense the amount of acceleration.
You can sense it because your body has inertia; a force is required to change your velocity.
In Newtonian mechanics, force is defined as something that causes change of velocity.
About inertia:
Inertia is in a category of its own. To categorize inertia as a force would be a self-contradiction. While it is the case that inertia acts in opposition to the change of velocity, inertia cannot be thought of as a counter-force. If inertia would be a counter-force, then the change of velocity would be impossible.
In electromagnetism, there is a phenomenon that is analogous to inertia: inductance
Imagine a current circuit where the current conductor is a superconductor. Also, let the circuit be set up to have self-inductance.
Being a superconductor, any current in the circuit will continue indefinitely. It is when you want to increase or decrease the current strength that the self-inductance of the circuit comes into play. Change of current strength elicits a magnetic field that acts in opposition to that change of current strength.
This opposition does not prevent an increase/decrease of current strength. Instead, the opposition is such that the rate of change of current strength is in some proportion to the applied voltage difference. The higher the self-inductance, the stronger the opposition to increase/decrease of current strength.
The expression 'pseudo force' is very awkward.
Inertia is not pseudo, inertia is real, and categorizing inertia as a force is a self-contradiction.
With the above in place, I turn to the basis of how an accelerometer operates.
You are in, say, a train carriage, and a weight is suspended from the roof of the carriage. It's in effect a pendulum.
When the carriage accelerates the weight lags behind; inertia.
All accelerometers use the above operating principle, in one form or another.
If you have a smartphone: today's smartphones are equipped with (tiny) accelerometers. The type of technology that is most often used is called MEMS.
The accelerometer setup consists of a (tiny) stalk, with a sensor that is sensitive enough to pick up the minute lag when the device as a whole is accelerated (just as the pendulum bob in the train carriage lags behind when the train carriage changes velocity.)
A full complement of acceleration sensing consists of three accelerometers, at right angles to each other. This is referred to as 'tri-axial arrangement'. The readings of the respective measurement axes are combined to arrive at the actual acceleration of the device.
With sufficiently accurate acceleration sensing, combined with sufficiently accurate change-of-orientation sensing, it is possible to do the acceleration counterpart of dead reckoning
With nautical dead reckoning, you keep a log of your velocity and direction at all times, and with sufficiently accurate logging you can return to exactly your starting point. That is, the dead reckoning allows you to construct your current position relative to your starting point, so you can plot a course back to that starting point.
An inertial navigation system is analogous to that, but with and inertial navigation system you are integrating acceleration readings. (More precisely: acceleration readings combined with keeping track of changes of orientation.)
I have taken the time to emphasize that an inertial navigation system is sufficient to know your current position relative to some starting point, and you can plot a course back to that starting point.
(Of course, in the real world there is always some measurement drift. But this is a thought experiment, and in a thought experiment we can always assume that our measurement devices can be made so accurate that measurement error is not a factor.)
The fact that you can always plot a course back to your starting point shows that acceleration is absolute.
Now, of course: as you are at some starting point, ready to begin a journey, your acceleration measurement does not tell you where your starting point is relative to other features in the larger world. Inertia is the same everywhere, so inertia does not give you any information about your position.
The point is: once you have set yourself in motion you can always construct your current position relative to your starting point.
Inertia is the same, everywhere, and in every direction. That very uniformity allows you to use inertia as a global reference.
Conversely, imagine a universe where inertia fluctuates randomly from place to place and from orientation to orientation. Then there is no uniformity, hence no reference.
So:
If inertia is the same everywhere, then acceleration (as measured with an accelerometer) is absolute.